Ponder

Have anyone ever wondered how we are suppose to live life? How are we suppose to love someone?

Ok, I know this is like very subjective. But, let's try anyways.

I believe in living life as being joyful, grateful and enthusiastic. Looking forward to every brand new day. Always seeing the positive in things that happens, even though it is so bad. Just because you know inside you that you are capable to handle it. Maybe not by yourself, maybe you need some kind of help but you somehow knew, that in the end, you will get out from the other side, a little bit bruised, but alive anyways. I enjoyed my life, because every morning when I get up, I thank God for giving me such a wonderful life, a great family, a whole bunch of great friends, for the healing of my body, for letting me keep my senses, and for the way I love.

I love like I did not before, simply because I learn how to love from the experiences that I had. Slowly, I started to understand the kind of love that God have for mankind, the kind of love that a Mother have for her Child. The Unconditional Love. It is the kind of love that did not ask for anything back, not even for the person to love you back. You just love for the sake of loving. It feels like nothing is lost, even though everything is given. I know it doesn't make sense to most. But to me the way to love someone is just that, loving him or her. Period. Don't ask for anything back, even love. And then everything feels "lighter"(I can't find any better word). What you do for the object of your love feels more sincere, because you are not trying to gain anything from those gestures. No jealousy, no greed. I just feel...FREE.

Isn't it amazing that sometimes, when we differ from others, in the way we do things for instance, we tend to get called weird and maybe crazy or stupid. People don't take differences very well. They like similarities. Get a partner? Find something in common. Get a job? Find one that appeals to your strength. Yeah I agree in the logic behind that, but are differences so bad? Isn't it what makes things interesting? I love the diversity. I am a passive person, I think, and I believe I need someone that is aggresive to help me fulfill my potential. I am calm and positive, and as a result of that, my more temperamental friends gain something from me, usually patience. Haha.

Anyways, this is the way that I live my life and love someone. I cherish the differences and I will protect it from people who are fanatically programmed to accept only people like them.

Enjoy your life, it is meant for that. Be nice. Be loving. Be sincere.

~YES to diversity, pluralism and liberalism~